vistana...seems like you and I can't hold a...ahem...candle to some of these submissives.
i have had only one experience with hot wax...it was my first and last...that was near five years ago...the wax was dripped on my clit...it was painful beyond belief and i suffered for days later...am thinking now something was not done right...although maybe it was, as it was not intended for pleasure.
hell...i have a phobia of birthday cakes now because of it...just kidding.