The sharing of feelings is, for me, the most intimate experience of all. When Pita cries during a consensual activity we share, either in pain or joy or -- sometimes -- anger, it is a bonding moment as powerful as (maybe more powerful!) sex.

Yeah, I mean that.

As a child I wasn't allowed to cry. When I met Pita I hadn't cried since my father's death, 23 years earlier. But my submissive is teaching me and I"m rediscovering whole areas and depths of emotion that I've envied for a long time. The first time with her was unbelievably cleansing for me.

Tell me I shouldn't be crying and I'll practice my single tail up and down your sorry ass!

hJ