I've been lurking here for maybe a year or two, (because of my age i'll leave that maybe up to you).


I joined because I saw a post in the Personals forum which looked far too good to be true. It was, and the relationship it spawned has been interesting to say the least. A wonderful learning experience, but sadly destined to stay online.

I live in bumfuck NOWHERE virginia, (i'll give you a hint: its a 50 minute drive to delaware), not much hope of any real scene around here.

I go to uni in louisana though, around alexandria. When I get back down there from winter break i'm going to poke around and see if there is any activity of the sort I require.

I realized that I 'liked' bdsm as a child, any sorts of cops and robbers or cowboys and indians that involved hostages


Did not realize until halfway through highschool that it was something I couldnt get away from. Several vanilla relationships got me to realize that I needed a bit more 'commitment' from my girlfriends.


So, to cut to the point:

I'm 19, dominant, freshly comfortable with who I am, and ready to start down whichever roads this lifestyle may take me down.

I may or may not post, being that I dont have much experience I probably will not have much to say on certain matters....

My parents probably think I'm gay, havent had a girlfriend since I was 17.... I wonder, would the truth be more of a shock to them? :P


(to clarify: I'm not gay, I got out of my last vanilla relationship as a highschool snot, realizing exactly WHY it did not work out. Spent the better part of two years figuring out how to deal with the fact that I was what I previously considered to be some sort of headcase 'sexual deviant'. fuckit, too late to change now :P)