lol He always struck me as a "friendly giant" type... but who knows what evils lurk within. I don't think I'd want to make him mad.

I think the working out all the "how would this actually work" details definitely makes it so much more fun. From the male perspective... finding a girl you want, plotting how to get her, how to get her where you want her without getting caught, how will she be restrained, all before the real action begins...

... fun fantasy times.