Yes good point Ruby- that it helps to have a clear distinction between 'normal' & playtime.

My first sub & I would chat away about everyday things, then I'd say to her, 'would you like to put your collar on for me please susy?' & she'd say yes.

When she spoke next, she'd say 'I am wearing my collar now Master' & she'd be mine until I allowed her to take it off.

It sort of saved having a conversation 'um er would you um like to play a bit now?'


Tojo