Hey Timberwolf, I can relate! My situation is a bit different as I switched with my master, but the challenges are similar. I find myself letting him take control now and again, not just when I want to play that way, but when he says I "need" to. Then it becomes challenging to get him to listen to me later. Heck, it gets hard to take charge, too. I am fortunate that we know each other well and can talk about it. I sincerely hope your friendship with this lady makes talking to each other help you, too!