to the forums, respecter...and I'm sure you'll find this an intersting and fun place to explore.

Damn, d2p...now that I can relate to as well! Thanks for passing the enlightenment on, lol. I remember a particularly rough and challenging training session at a seminar - the (very domly) guy who put me on the spot and never let me out of it again...hell, that was scary and exciting and sooo hot. Lol, as another funny aside...we talked about relationships one afternoon on a break and he was like 'Silke, you don't want to go out with X (another guy from the seminar)...he's too much of a nice guy and I'm guessing you need more of a challenge, a bit of what I call the asshole factor...'

He was right, too. *grins* I just never related it to D/s...d'oh!