What transpired...with this guy - nothing, lol. We're still good friends and all he ever was for me, was a very good mentor, someone who helped me with some issues in my life at the time.

But it showed me which style of teaching (in a broader sense) I respond best to - one on one intensive teaching with someone who isn't afraid to push me, sometimes mercilessly...but always with respect for who I am, where I want to go...and with a lot of love and care. He'd have made a great dom. *smiles*

And yeah, respecter - I get what you're saying about teachers.