HI ,
Lucky I am not due into work until quite late this morning, or I'd be in trouble as I have been reading and writing here for far longer than I meant to.................... LOL

This is another topic close to my heart as I'd love to have a contract with my owner but he won't have one. His reasoning is simple:

"I don't think a contract is necessary" he says, "because if you wanted to walk out on our relationship, you would do so, contract or no contract. Also, if you do not know what I expect of you, I have failed as your owner and dominant and, if you don't do what I want, you are not a good submissive/chattel."

This may sound like harsh pragmatism and, in many ways, I suppose it is. Where there are points that need discussing, for instance safe words or signs, they get discussed which means that he'll listen to my opinion but he is the one who takes the final decision. NO appeal if I don't like what he has decided.

So, much as the idea of a contract appeals to me from a personal viewpoint because I love the romance of it all, it is not something that features in our D/s relationship. Instead we live with one basic fact - Mark owns Jane. Period................

Love Jane