Quote Originally Posted by ~hellish one~
This is just one of those things that helps remind us that we all have different pain tolerances...and also that a particular pain may feel differently to everyone.

There are some of us that can't handle the pain of hot candle wax...yet may absolutely love needle play. Then you have me...love candle wax...anywhere...everywhere...every distance...it's erotic to me but has never been painful. But you come at me with a needle and i will scream bloody murder. ~laughs~

This should definitely be a gentle reminder to all that "what goes for one...doesn't necessarily go for another."
I'm like you. Back when I was strictly a sub, I actually liked candle wax, but I couldn't take a needle. So when I became a Dom, I do use candle wax on my subs, but I don't stick them with needles, unless she really begs for it.