Hello, restraint. Another Aussie, I see. Welcome to the boards and I hope that you find what you are looking for.
As fo internet players, you are so right. There are many out there but I think it is largely because BDSM is the new "fad" for the times.
Thank being said, welcome again.Have a great time. Also, check out the chat room if you like. It can usually have a few of our more regular memebers in there during the evenings (Canadian evenings LOL). You can find the link in comments and suggestions in the chat room thread. Hope to see you there!