Greetings and welcome enza...good to have you here.

Sirbor..thank you for sharing with us...sorry you lost your wife. You have my sympathy

Greetings and welcome to you tegan...would like to know more about you...i.e. male/female...i am assuming you are a sub.

You have all come to the right place to learn more about BDSM in a warm and friendly atmosphere....Enjoy.