I have been lurking around this forum for quite a while, and thought it was time I joined and started to contribute.

I have been "into" BDSM properly since I met my wife 3 years ago, but have been fetish aware since I was about 13.

For myself and my Wife/Lover/Best friend/sub Elle BDSM is a daily but not all encompassing part of our lives. We are continually exploring new boundaries and looking for new experiences. We are more into the D/s side but are straying into some harder SM as well.

For my part my emergence as a Dominant was and still is a surprise to me. To be sexually dominant was not a role I had placed myself in but with Elle it was natural and felt perfect.

She is submissive almost by nature, an eye watering masochist, (I have no idea how she can enjoy some of the things I do to her), and has in the last two years trained and conditioned into a wonderful and fulfilling sub. She's also damn cute to boot!!

On the day to day side we live in the UK in London, run our own business, have 2 Kids and precious little time or space to play properly.

I'll try to post a few pics in the other threads and try not to tread on too many toes as I give my penny's worth on the various topics.