Hi all. I'm a 22 year old male from South Africa. I've been turned on and fascinated by BDSM for years, although I'm not exactly sure how to describe my role, since I have no real-life experiance. I know that I'm into dominating women, but can you call yourself a dom if you've never actually done it (yet)? Using this forum and writing for the site have been my first active contributions to the BDSM world, and it feels great. Hopefully there are many more contributions to come.