Quote Originally Posted by Ruby
The essay, one of my favorite punishments. So is having someone sit still and be quiet.

Taking away privileges, for a set period of time, also works well.

Withholding food or water, keeping someone from and/or going to the bathroom -- all of those can be considered over the line punishments.
I agree, the essay and taking away privileges are both good punishments. But actually I think withholding (or even just limiting how much) food/water works quite well too, especially if the sub loooves eating. Being told what time you can eat again makes you even more hungry, as you look forward to it and it seems so far away. And if your dom/me eats in front of you… that’s just cruel lol.