This is my thread isn't it?! This is what I think.
Asia, I think you need 4 Bloody Marys and a large G&T. As far as I can see it, this man, your uncle-in-law took advantage of you, pissed or not, funeral or not. You said he was naturally Dom and you didnt have to ask for anything apart from no marks. Excuse me but most of the girls I have had sex with and have as friends would find immediate sexual dominance in a church after a funeral deviant and even a possible assault. He was probably in heaven. I think only other women could comment on this.

Maybe because, as you said, you started upside down with BD and SM first then vanilla, you didnt think this was out of order. But if anyone should feel guilty sweetheart, it should be him, not you. He is your man's uncle as well. Dont tell your man but it looks like the cousin knew the score.

Please women, give your opinion on this.

Even as a Geordie, Im quite annoyed that you're the one feeling guilty, even finishing with AJS and his uncle probably couldnt believe his luck. Please take care of yourself pet, I might be younger than you but trust me, most men think alike and some men act it out. Consent for forced sex for those in non-BDSM relationships are rare. But then again, the pubs have just shut and I am wishing I could look after you. You are an hour away on the train.
Ed. x