Hmm, tough question to answer...I haven't really noticed a pattern in my attraction to guys, other than that a certain attitude draws me in.

Yeah, I have a sterotypical ideal in my head, some dark tall sinister stranger who comes up in fantasies, lol...but I'm not looking for 'him' in real life. Looks are so redundant once there is a certain look, sense of humour, way of capturing my attention. Now, if all I had was a picture - what would I do? Guess what, I probably wouldn't be interested. Yeah, I'd probably admire someones looks or shrug. But either way, it wouldn't get me to either want to get to know the person or not. I'm not looking for a face, but the person behind it. So, if it was a Personal, I'd check for how he 'sells' himself, start to get talking, see whether we click.

Does a 'nice' look turn me off? Nope. Neither does a scruffy look, though. The looks don't tell me about that person, and definitely not about their dom qualities, lol. Remember the movie 'secretary'? Well, the guy looked as harmless as can be - nice, friendly, shy. But once he got into his 'role', started whispering....damn, THEN I melt. Looks mean nothing for me. At best, they are an icing to a good cake.

Not sure I answered your question...*laughing*