Beautifully put O long eared one.
Many subs & potential subs seem to think if someone calls themself a Dom, they automatically deserve respect & are all-knowing.
Apparently this is NOT the case! I have reams of text which states unequivocably that many so called 'Experienced Doms' are.....wannabees.
Go in with your eyes open, do not believe everything 'He' says- trust your own instincts.
The golden rule IMO- 'If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.'
Tojo