I posted this because I have had a few subs come to me ----a few were from the chat room ----and a few were from the forum --had recently been chosen by a Dom ---turned out to be want to be Doms----all these subs were doing is putting on mini sex shows for some guy claiming to be a Dom. So ladies if all you want out of a relationship is to strip and get on a yahoo or other cam ---put on nipple clamps or spank yourself ---then have at it.

Otherwise ---you are being taken advantage of ---and if you are going to put on a porn show ---hey at least get paid for it.

This just made me sick --after talking to these fine ladies.. and they felt so used and stupid.

I know of some very fine Doms on this site---they are caring---Trust worthy people. There is nothing I can do to tell you who is and who is not a real Dom because with over 17,000 members I do not know each one personally.

All I can do is advise you the subs to think. Ask your Dom questions before you commit to being their sub. Move slowly until you are sure you can trust them. And do not do anything that you are not comfortable with doing.