Hi & welcome MD. As cariad said, check out that thread- we could go on with a whole page of ideas...

Holding a partner's wrists above her head or just holding them down is often fun for them. There's lots of fun ideas on this forum.

One thing I remember from my early explorations is to take a nice soft length of rope while you're getting warmed up & just drape it around, & tease her with it. Brush it over her face & tangle it round a bit- not around her neck please...

Well not on the first day anyway.

Have fun.

Tojo