This is a very intriguing thread, as I know that when I did the paper I did have a little online experience and was labelled a wannabe by a few, but not really understood the difference. Now, just in reading the entire thread, I am getting a good idea that there are wannabe Doms out there and I do not want to be labelled as one.
A lot of good points were raised, and this should be one of the "sticky threads" I see about the Forum Boards.
Now I have a question. If the same is true for Doms, is it also for subs and slaves?