Quote Originally Posted by Tojo

I too pretty much lost interest in D/s after a few failed attempts. If not for my lovely lisa & then meeting Aussiegirl I'd probably be posting on a tech forum by now....

Finding the right one is so very important.

Tojo
Well, that tech forums loss is certainly our gain! I certainly am thrilled to be one of those people you can trust and who has helped you to find your joy in D/s again.

Ds, trust is such a big thing in any relationship, but especially a
d/s one. I think you need to listen to what you head is telling about people, and as Aesop said, you need to put yourself out there to find someone you can trust.

That being said, you might need to work through the issues that have led to your lack of trust in the first place. I hope, that like me, you can met someone who can allow you to trust again.

Good luck.