using the safe word

[velvet2000]

First of all may I extend a low curstey to all Masters and a wave to all subs.

Sir has told me to come on here and introduce myself. I am velvet2000 and am Wheele2000's slave. We have enjoyed playing our games for a while now and both thoroughly enjoy them. Sir is naturally dominent and I am very submisive so we fit into our roles very well.

When we were playing the other day, when I had to say my safe word, I was the one who tied myself up. Sir is disabled so although when he ties me up its tight but not really really tight, He gave me permission to try tying my breasts up as we had seen done on Chantra Rose's site as well as others. I also wanted to see how tight I could take. I have to say that as I was tying myself I got very very excited and Sir commented on how squelchy I was.

The mistake we made was being tied up to long, my breasts were darker than my natural skin tone but were not overly blue or purple.

We always discuss what we have done and whether both of us enjoyed it or not and I would definitely do it again although not for so long. I would even plead to be paddled on my breasts again.

It was good to experience the affects of the safe word, and although I completely trust Sir as soon as I said it He stopped and untied me.

I have to say that some of the sites recommended would be too extreme even for me and I would be saying the safe word if Sir even hinted at buying some of the stuff!!!

Thanks for reading.

luv velet

[Ruby]

First of all may I extend a low curstey to all Masters and a wave to all subs.

Welcome, Velvet2000!

The mistake we made was being tied up to long, my breasts were darker than my natural skin tone but were not overly blue or purple.

Live and learn. You did your homework, tried something new and it didn't work as well as you wanted it.

Congratulations on using your safeword!
That's what it's there for.

wheele2000 and Velvet2000, thanks for clarifying the situation. We can all learn from each other and you two have revealed a very personal moment as well as a great reason to safe word.

All,

Sometimes, the outside of the body doesn't appear to be doing anything out of the ordinary, but inside can be buzzing or burning, like a leg cramp or when a body part falls asleep. Using a safe word immediatly lets your partner know what's going on and adjustsments can be made for both your pleasure.

Phantome,

As I hope you can see, a safeword isn't always about extreme play. It can be about something as simple as "children interuptus" for those of us with kids or being stiff and uncomfortable from being in the same position for too long.

Time does tend to fly when we are having fun.

Ruby

[Phantome]

As I hope you can see, a safeword isn't always about extreme play. It can be about something as simple as "children interuptus" for those of us with kids or being stiff and uncomfortable from being in the same position for too long.
Ruby

I understand about the need to use the safeword in a number of situations that don't have anything to do with extreme pain. What I was wondering about was forcing a sub to the point where he or she must use it. I was confused about why the need to do that would exist, but I think crewdawg helped clear it up a bit.
-Phan

[Ruby]

What I was wondering about was forcing a sub to the point where he or she must use it. I was confused about why the need to do that would exist, but I think crewdawg helped clear it up a bit.
-Phan

I think IDCrewDawg did as well.

Have played with one sub in particular and witnessed other subs who were reluctant to use their safe words, the sub has to know that using their words is not a failure. Dom/mes, tops and master's outside of fiction aren't mind readers.

Thanks, IDCrewDawg!