I didn't mean to intone that fantasies are meant to be carried out; however, if one wishes to attempt it, just be careful. But now that I think about it, I'm off to carry out a fantasy now--ciao.

Originally posted by Spitman
There's no need to 'live out' a fantasy. A great fantasy can remain in the mind and exceed anything we can do physically.

So I disagree fundamentally with the presumption by Bruce Boxer that fantasies are there to be acted out. The very best of them do no belong anywhere near a real playroom.