Originally posted by Kelli
He knows what I like and what I can take, as we have been together over 2 years. He just doesn't like to hurt me, even if it turns me on incredibaly.
I would suggest that he needs to know more than just what you like and what you can take. I am willing to bet that he would be thrilled and excited to know HOW it makes you feel. Tell him about it in your own words. Be descriptive. Show him. If all else fails, find a story in the bdsm library that accurately describes how you feel when being dominated and read it to him.

Let us know how it goes...