Quality is something that is always worth the money. To me its always a question if the wallet can support what I want to buy.
A few places that won't be quite so much money that you can get some good toys is a tack shop (place where they sell stuff for horses). You can also go to a good farm supply store for a good selection of whips and such. For floggers I found that simply making my own was more than sufficent, that way I could have the type of leather, and thickness of tails I desire. They are not fancy looking, but she doesnt care about what they look like when I am flogging her bottom.
Depending if your in the usa or not, I could recommend some stores.
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