having something personal or even worked in initials to remind you of a wonderful and intense time with a special someone, really appeals to me. And no, I wouldn't be reluctant to do it for fear of that particular relationship not working out - I've never had hard feelings when breaking up with someone and would think that I'd love to cherish the intimate moments even after the paths go off in different directions. It's like other scars or tattoos etc you carry - they have a story to tell and are a part of you forever...I love it.
