angelfreak - I think that's a great point that hasn't been raised here. While some of what we'd like to do in a BDSM context might look appealing and the 'right thing to do', it doesn't disappear when you go out to work or meet your family and friends. I think it's a major decision that has to be made:Eventually, I'd like to get Master's initials in the lock or something...but I don't know how I'd explain that kind of tattoo (even minus initials) to vanilla friends.
how obvious or overt do you want your 'mark' to be to vanilla eyes? and
how comfortable will you be with people seeing it?
I think everyone going through the process of deciding on permanent marks (be it BDSM ones or not), should ask him/herself those questions.
For me, personally, this would pose two options - either get something that is cryptic enough so that I'd feel comfortable showing it off OR get something more obviously kinky somewhere easily conceivable if necessary.
mina - I like the matching dragon tattoos - so cool! Still not sure about the cuts...*shudders* Is there a chance that we'll see some of your marks at some stage? I'm so curious.![]()