Hi everyone.
I am new here and new to BDSM.

Just a few days ago, on my 34th birthday I signed a contract with my wife of 7 years.

My wife and I are very honest and open regarding any topic with each other. Although it was a little embarrassing to talk about, I expressed my desire to be submissive to her in every way. I thought she would not go for it at all. I thought she would rather have “a man’s man” because she is not naturally a dominant person but as usual, she surprised me. We talked about it and played for a few weeks. When I was sure she was OK with this total life style change, I modified a contract I found on the net. I know that the contracts aren’t worth much (my wife wouldn’t take me to court over it anyway) but I felt it would be good to have written down what she could expect from me and what I would expect from her and then finalize it by signing.

It’s only been a few days but my wife seams to be taking it seriously which is great. She is beginning to expect me to do what she wants instead of asking me and I think she is getting a taste for it. I hope that this trend continues because she deserves to have whatever she wants.

It’s strange that I should be so joyous over being her slave. I’ve always been the bossy one.