god love you got a hold of a want to be Dom---and I am sorry you had to go thru that ----Like I said before a real Dom cares about his sub----weather online or real life ----and if a online relationship is to progress to R/L then that level of caring and trust should be there---yes you gave good advice ---make sure someone knows you are meeting another person ---do not ge in a car with them meet at a public place ----if your instints tell you something is wrong ---then it probably is ---

Rape fantasy is one thing but I have never talked to a actual rape victim that enjoyed it -----And your family should have supported you ---that is a bad part---it hurts---

thank you for sharing this with us and the useful information for the new subs

there is a difference in a Dom and a Sadist---you met a Sadist