The second such story I've heard today. Thanks for trusting us enough to share, s1.

Check out this thread for further info http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3647

I'd also suggest making the first meeting a 'no play' meeting. Go away & have a think about how it went, then decide about the next one. That's a common rule.

The thing about your family is sadly very common. The same can go for friends, & authority figures. I've heard that many many times, that people find out who their friends are.

People just can't cope with such things- it brings up their own fears. To believe that an innocent person can be assaulted, people have to accept the fact that it could happen to them too....

Which explains where the myths come from - the 'way she was dressed' 'she was asking for it' etc. All of which neatly avoids the fact that it can & does happen to anyone- which is the last thing many people want to believe.

You've survived beautifully missy. Well done.


Tojo