"I think when we got to the 'quick cum fix' & 'greed is more of an issue' this thread died.

I find that offensive & don't wish to comment further."

Why? You can't seriously sit there and tell me there aren't Doms out there using their position to, quite frankly, live every 16 year old boy's dream at the expense of certain sub's emotions. Done behind the guise of a poly relationship, of a far less legitimate variety than the kind (from what I gather) people like yourself and Aesop are involved in. If it doesn't apply to you because your relationship with your women is more serious (and the same goes to Aesop) there should be no need to get offended to something that doesn't even apply to you.

Using subs strickly for a Dom's pleasure at any cost is obviously not an exclusively poly issue by the wildest stretch of the imagination, but the way some of the Doms (who seem like perfectly respectable gentlemen who treat their women well, I might add) have simply shrugged it off without offering much in the way of an actual answer has quite frankly been the most interesting thing I've seen in this thread so far.