You know I always find it odd when these conversations turn like this. I answered the questions because I wanted to give out some info that poly really isn't all that different than a one on one relationship, but I didn't want to enter a debate on whether or not it's good or bad and I still don't want to.

Everyone wants to be accepted for who they are and what they do. Everyone. Homosexuals fight the lack this, bdsm folks fight it, black folks, hell even men with long hair fight it sometimes.

On the flipside of that seems to be this need to put other groups in a box or something. To say they all to this or that when we know it's not true for ourselves. I do it myself now and again and when I realize it I don't like that I did it. Those comments like the one about fucking everything in town lump me in with people who do that. Since I don't, I don't like it. It's just that simple.

As for justifying myself....well I don't really need to justify myself to anyone but those I love ya know? I'll be glad to expand on the answers I gave if you like though. Just let me know which ones you'd like more info on.