Aussiegirl, of all the posts on this thread, yours is the most eloquent explanation of how a one-many relationship CAN work. Despite your eloquence, it’s your final comment that really sums it up perfectly. If it works, it just works.
Thanks Q.

I am glad you found my post to be elequent, I know I tried hard to think about my response. I also agree that last comment says it all!

I also understand that you are just trying to understand something you have not experienced. I fully understand that, I have spent this year doing that!

Aussiegirl, that was a lovely post. Thank you.
Tojo, it means a lot to me that you liked what I posted too. You know how I feel about our time together and how much it means to me.