Even after having been in the lifestyle since my late teens i am still amazed at times. Poly V. Mono is still the most divisive topic i have found. In almost every other area, most everyone involved can agree to disagree and move on. But bring the Poly/Mono question up, and so many jump to the ramparts with their guns blazing. Not just here, i have been through this same topic in real-life groups, and it got a lot uglier a lot quicker.

i wonder sometimes why this topic in particular brings up such defensive responses?

Ponderingly,
muse