my Ex. (years ago) enjoyed using cane, whips and other swishy items on my body. Two things from this, 1st. it took several years for the scars to heal and 2nd. i learned to rapidly HATE them. Altho' i enjoy BDSM and being sexually dominated, anyone mentions caning or whipping, i go back in my mind to the nights i cried myself to sleep, immaterial whether it was a bed, or stall or, even a cage. .. the blows and blood put me, forever off that, apparent, sexual fantasy made real.

However, i agree with the writers that say that if a couple can MUTUALLY enjoy sexual release thru' so called 'abnormal' release. Then, so be it.
i, for one, have great pleasure in being forced to sexually do as i'm instructed, love bondage, easily soak two towels if my udders are bound tight, (for Science) [smile] my pussy slapped, as well as my udders and take on almost anything that is thrust inside me and frequently soak with juices, but at the mention or smell, of a cane/whip, will dry up completely.
The moral, i think, is to do what you BOTH enjoy and not take over as the so called 'We're God's gift to women' syndrome.

Spanking is erotic, still is, but i'm always nervous that if i admit to spanks it may lead to worse, as it once did .. for 3.5 yrs.
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My favourite today, having a lovely, pc ignorant, huge teddy bear of a hubby, that is so gentle to me, but almost killed a guy that got carried away a few years ago, is Fantasy Cyber and so anyone that could use an 'agp' (assistant guinea pig' in the Sexperimental Farm Laboratory, for Science and good of all Animalkind, (blush) feel free (Doctor) to E.mail me and/or leave a suitable message.
Having had a wealth of sexually submissive experience, i FEEL the part and can soak two towels, when cybering a clever, mature minded, imaginative guy (very few and far between) that wants to use me in His Lab. for His Research Trials and not want to try anthing for real.

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