You know, I'm glad I wasn't the only one feeling this went too far and is hoping we'll get back on track. From the reactions so far, I'm thinking we still have a chance for peace without everyone retreating into their shells and the topic dying.

Q - never feel afraid to post hot topics - in fact, I hope we'll have many more. It's part of my job to step in when tempers get overheated, that's what moderating means. It's tricky to do when you're also posting on the subject or intending to - but I'm hoping I'm managing the balance act and didn't only kick out to one side. If anybody feels I did, feel free to kick back privately.

I'll share my own views some more if the seas stay calm for a bit.

Dragon's muse - I never realized this was such an explosive topic. And like you, I'd love to learn why it is this way. I, for one, don't even feel the need to justify myself. I'll be glad to share my views if I feel there is honest interest, and if someone doesn't like them for themselves, that's fine by me. I'm the one making those decisions and they only have to work for me and the people involved. I don't need a general absolution for the life I lead.