Howdy mate!

Personally, for myself, I didn't come looking for an O/l Master. I found one in someone who didn't push himself on me. I know that personally When a Dom is immediately pushing himself onto me (or anyone) I immediately get suspicious wondering what their exact motives are. Some Doms I've found are naturally pushy without trying. It comes across with everything they say, no matter who they're talking to. Others, are more pushy because they desire you as their sub. (which this alone can have multiple motives for)

Best advice I can give if you are looking. Take a step back. Talk to doms that are looking for a sub, but don't do it from the angle of a sub looking for a dom. Talk to them more as a friendly getting to know you way. I personally love the chat room for this. You get to see how the doms in there interact around others as well as yourself. We're also a friendly bunch of folks to talk to

Hope this helps!