Personally, for myself, I didn't come looking for an O/l Master. I found one in someone who didn't push himself on me.
I think s1 says it pretty well there.

Personally I don't believe in actually looking for a husband, wife, play partner or whatever- I look for a friend. If something comes from that,well & good- but I firmly believe any kind of relationship needs friends as a basis.

Works for me!


Tojo