First up the next moderator can be d2p I think.

OK, so we all got a little excited- never mind. I'll try & set a good example, forget all that & speak of my own experience, which is what I normally do.

Well I'm married to a straight woman, who I love very much & intend to stay with as long as we're both alive.

If I didn't have a girl online I'd probably be dead inside & unable to care so much for my wife. I may even grow to detest her for causing me to miss a part of my life that means so much.

I have more than one girl I care for online- I also have a D/s relationship with more than one.

First & foremost in my life is lisa- I'm a kind of carer & friend mostly.
I try & keep her living her life in a way that seems right to me. We've been together almost a year now, spending time together each day.

I also have some sort of D/s relationship with Aussiegirl- I had NO intention of starting something with her, apart from friendship. She's helped me find a part of myself I'd lost for a while. She's a truly beautiful person, who means a lot to me.

Then there's Jane- we don't have a D/s relationship, but we sure have something! There's others, but never mind about that...

To define all the relationships I have would be pointless. I know some girls who are the finest, most wonderful people I've ever met. I am truly blessed.

It works- I get different things from each one, I love them all in different ways. It's not for everyone perhaps- I'm sure there's plenty of women who'd be revolted at the thought of sharing. That's fine by me!

So- if it works for me, & works for them, why should I not love more than one?

I don't believe in flogging, caning, public humiliation or a million other things I see every day on this & other forums. So what? If two people want to do something, good for them. Who are we to judge?

Tojo