Quote Originally Posted by Gregsta View Post
It is always difficult without the benefit of body language or facial expressions to interpret what people are thinking when they post and I've had the odd experience that left me feeling, not so good. It is important therefore, to temper all your online activities with commonsense and not take things to heart. Life will always go on outside these forums.
Holding my hand up, as one of those once responsible for once leaving you not feeling so good. Not proud of the occasion, but quoting it as an example which I hope will benefit other people.

The incident actually happened in chat, but without the benefit of body language, and with the benefit of some odd things happening on the night we changed servers, what I innocently said, and to continued to say having no idea of the effect my words were having, was hurtful to you.

We continued talking, unaware that we were at cross purposes, until to me, you suddenly declared how upset you were.

A big big thank you Gregsta for saying that, it enabled us to have an adult, although emotional, exchange to explore what had happened, and what had gone wrong, and what we both actually meant when we said what we did.

Although it was mutually painful at the time, I feel it is was a prime example of how things can be resolved through honest communication, and the plus side to the whole incident is that I feel I know you so much better.

Proud to be able to call myself one of your friends
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