Quote Originally Posted by Rabbit1 View Post
My subs usually come from casual conversations ---not sent to "hook up" but rather just joking around with people in general and getting to know them.

and I think that is the best way ---get to know some one first ---before you enter a hook up relationship with them ----
Yes, but taking that first step is still the same. That feeling of sticking your ass out in the breeze so to speak. Making a move is always risking rejection whether or not you've become close friends.