Until I joined this site, I was never the one to approach someone I liked first! Here, I have found a new confident to just PM someone and say Hi. It was not in a hope to "hook up", but just a way of getting to know them better. I can't stand pushy, but love it when you can get to know someone well over time.

So I guess Adam, just say Hi to those you like and see what happens. It certainly worked for me!