I've seen a lot of "Dominant women" who are really in it looking for an excuse to kick men in the balls. Either figertuvely/phycologically, or in some cases, literally. Thanks, but I'll pass on those. If I want to be nagged at, told how stupid my friends are, and told how crap I am for being born with the wrong set of genitals, I'm sure I could find a woman to do that without the pretence of being a Domme.

"Well, from what I've seen and, unfortunately, what I hear constantly lamented by submissive men, is that many online dommes aren't actually dominant. The dominance they display is often just a thin veneer to their submissiveness."

I think of them as an offshoot of the "bratty sub" looking to be put in their place, I guess. And some of them are probably switches, though a lot of people whom I think could go down that path seem fairly reluctant to embrace it.

"And, finally, since submissive men seem to outnumber dominant women--good luck."

I once read a pretty serious article that labelled the ratio of subs to genuine Doms (overall, no gender taken into account) at a 10 to 1 ratio. Now, I think that ratio is bollocks, but it's still a fair suggestion that overall Doms are the outnumbered club regardless of gender. I will say that online I've met less Dommes than any other role in BDSM, including switches of either sex.