Do you approach Doms?

[angelfreak]

I guess I have done both but not for the same reason. If I see someone online who is local and they seem interesting, I will drop them a line to see if they would like to talk not necessarily for a hook up but just to be able to talk with like minded people.

If I am looking for a hook up, I am too shy to approach anyone whether it be online or real life.

I've done both, too. When I first started my search, I wasn't really looking for someone to Dom me, but to talk to about my new found submissive desires. After quite a few, "On your knees, bitch" responses, I stopped being the agressive contactor and just did what I could to learn on my own. The times I've been contacted by Doms have been the times where there was more potential for things working out.

Cool thing was, when my Master contacted me, it was just for us to talk. Neither of us were looking for that dynamic in the other...it just...happened.