I know you like bondage above all, maddie...so how about doing stuff around the house or generally spending a day bound for him? Like...having your feet or hands tied together, wearing a shibari or other kind of bondage and nothing else for him. If he's there to watch you - perfect - if not, maybe take pictures of it for him?

You could add more and more items, like plugs, nipple clamps, kinda liked the thumb bondage as well *weg*...anyway, I'm sure your man will get the idea.

As for incentives...masturbate to the edge of orgasm after every task. Do not cum. Ask for his permission to cum at the end of the day when he's checked how you've done...it's his decision.

Punishments...well, gotta think about those, lol. I'm not good with those, but I'll be back with more input later. Oh, so many ideas...