Hi Lucy,

Thank you for your advice and balanced view on things. I will take on board what you have said. In answer to your question re whether I was interested in pursuing D/s relationship with someone online, I guess the answer would have been yes. But what you said made a lot of sense and I think I will perhaps talk to my partner a bit more about this, I have tried to gently push him in that direction and when he does get more dominant I hope that my responses have shown that I want more of the same, however my belief is that he needs more of a balanced sex life, by my nature I think I am more extreme.

The thought has occured to me that I could have the best of both worlds, and although I know subs can lead two independant lives in reality I am unsure how that would work for me.

Thank you once again for all youir comments, this has been the first time I have placed a question on this thread