I would echo what Tojo has said. There a number of people here who I feel privileged enough to call friends. These friendships were either initially formed in the chatroom or as a result of one of us sending the other a PM about a post here in the forums. Now it is common knowledge that I am not looking for a relationship, and perhaps I flatter myself, but I suspect that if I were, some of those friendships could have some gentle flirting added to them, and then...well it is impossible to say.

I met ColinClout, whose initials I wear, in the chatroom. He was the first person who spoke to me when I arrived, showed me around and befriended me, the rest is of the story is history.

So my advice would be – forget about looking for someone special, become a member of the community, enjoy the company here, make friends on the basis that you are fellow human beings rather Dom/me or sub, and when you are least expecting it…

cariad