Hmmm, much as i hate to say it kitten sweetie, i really think you were probably in the wrong....that's if i've read your post right, i kept getting lost mid way through (dozy slut that i am at times!).
Although the requests for information may to you have seemed somewhat excessive, i guess the fact remains that if she asked speficially for information, you should of given it, or at least tried, as opposed to blatantly acting as if she hadn't even asked!
So says me, the biggest sidestepper of them all when asked questions by my Dom!
Having said all that, perhaps you did it with the best of intentions, which should maybe count for something.
Hope any punishment she gives isn't too bad.
lucy x