Tea'lyn, I am always thrilled to see another Canadian around here.

I understand exactly what you are saying, and often feel the same conflict. If I told any of my vanilla friends I am into D/s, I am sure they would all expect me to be a Domme.

Thank you for sharing with me.

Tojo, thank you for adding your input as well. I didn't know about your background as a sub, and find it fascinating.

I have had a number of people tell me they have to think on this one. I totally understand...I do too. I can't wait to hear what everyone comes up with.